We assume that love hurts because the example of love set by our parent’s interaction with us is our current definition of love. Whenever we seek love as an adult, we unconsciously manifest a scenario that recreates the feeling we experienced during our childhood interaction with our parents. In other words, we recreate the felt-definition of love we learned from our parents; and more often than not that version of highly conditional love hurts.

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We assume that love hurts because the example of love set by our parent’s interaction with us is our current definition of love. Whenever we seek love as an adult, we unconsciously manifest a scenario that recreates the feeling we experienced during our childhood interaction with our parents. In other words, we recreate the felt-definition of love we learned from our parents; and more often than not that version of highly conditional love hurts.

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